Thursday, July 3, 2008

The Funny Faces Series



















As a family, it appears that we like to stick out our tongues a lot. The special drink of the night was called "Blue Crush" which explains all of the blue tongues in the reception photos.




Having just married into our family, Derrick and his older brother weren't sure how to take all the tongue photos...

More wedding photos



This photo was taken prior to the groom arriving 30 minutes late... (advice to the bachelor gentlemen out there... don't do that. :)



Abby LOVED to have her picture taken. With the binky in the mouth though, it was difficult to smile much.
























Becca's slightly more photogenic.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Saw a rather unique bumper sticker today... "Quakers... the original peace makers" and then followed up with another sticker Find a Quaker... www.quakerfinder.org

There are two quaker groups in the Cincinnati area and one in Oxford. I don't recall ever seeing any quakers when I went to Miami University, but it's been suggested that they didn't come out much and they certainly weren't hanging out at Mac & Joe's.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Please, someone, tell me, how is it that with all the power we women have gained in this world, have we NOT managed to make it mandatory that we stay home on the first day of our period??????

Seriously, I don't know a single man that, if faced with this every month, wouldn't be the biggest Whinny BABY about it and call off of work anyway. And even if you're one of the lucky women with no symptoms or take the pills that allow you to only have it four times a year, would you not find some way to enjoy those extra 12 days a year from work? How would your boss, especially the male bosses, prove you otherwise, nor would they bother attempting if they think you might be on your period.

If only we had gotten Hilary the nomination...

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Stephanie's Wedding Pictures

7/3/08 - Added names, etc, figured I'd tell you who your were looking at.

The beautiful sister and Bride



















Stephanie and her new husband, Derrick
A family photo, from left: brother Mark, nephew Peyton, me, Stephanie, my dad, mom2, nephew Taylor
Me, with my favorite little girls Abby and Becca
Stephanie and Derrick with bridesmaid Paula and groomsman, whose name unfortunately I can't remember...
Melissa and her husband Tim, cousin Jon with wife Marlene.
Marlene and I at the pre-wedding party.
My daddy and I dancing.
The older siblings and I.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

There is a wonderful breeze in Wooster as usual. Hopefully it won't rain, as we are about to have an outdoor party.
I drove by Andrew's house to see what the new people have done with the porch at least. The new residents really like plants and there is a rather expensive looking motorcycle in front of the garage. It barely looks like Andrew's house
anymore.:(


Es ist 2:45 am Morgen und für einige dumme Grund, warum ich nicht schlafen können.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Surgery is schedule for July 17, 2008. I will remain in the hospital for a couple of days and then have the following 6 weeks off of work. Apparently there will be a considerable amount of pain resulting from this surgery, to which I'm obviously not looking forward, however, breathing out of my mouth seems necessary.

My goal, other than healing and resting, and of course watching the entire series of Lost, will be to complete the novel I started on my previous medical leave.

Now I need to head off to have blood work done, inform my employer, who will not be pleased given my current projects, and then pack for Wooster.
Meeting with the thyroid specialist today to make the final determination regarding surgery.

It's going to be a hot day, so I think I'll stay in and work on decorating the new apartment. Not that I don't love my Matthew dearly, but some alone time will be enjoyable.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Okay, just one more photo of the kittens, but that's only because my favorite red-head is holding them.


Have fun at the Pearl Jam concert Allison!!!
Okay, so instead of bogging down this blog with tons of pictures of the kittens, I'm just going to create a blog for them. Cat lovers, enjoy. I'll save those who are not so fond of seeing shit-loads of kitten pictures.

http://ninjakittens.blogspot.com/
Four more hours and this work work is OVER. :)

And then off to Wooster for my sister's wedding. Thank goodness that will take up all of my time seeing as there is nothing more to do in Wooster anymore.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Or perhaps we won't walk there, seeing as it just started storming.

And the kittens don't like the sound of thunder.

Seriously, I can't help but to put more pictures of the kittens on here.
The first Saturday in the new place has been nice and peaceful. Matt and I went running at Ault Park this morning, a wonderful running and hiking area. The hiking is in the plans for the very near future. It's one of my favorite out door activities. Matt's down at his parents, helping them move also. Meanwhile, I'm tasked with decoration. Darn. Now I just need to get the curtain rods for the living room and bedroom; this has proven difficult as the windows are rather large. But I love the sage green curtains.

It must be said that even though this apartment is twice as big as our previous apartment (meaning we just simply don't have furniture to fill the place, subsequently meaning I have a good purpose for shopping, perhaps I'll venture out to the new Ikea store) and therefore more expensive; however, in the end, it's more economically sound. I have half the commute to work than previously, not even getting on the highway, and we live in a rather lovely community where we have the luxery of many wonderful bars and eateries within walking distance. No more driving to go out to eat or visit the used book store anymore. I estimate I'll save close to $200 each month on gas alone. That put against the higher rent, it all balances out very nicely. With the most wonderful park just up the road and the extremely low crime rate, it's a wonderful find.

Matt nearly has his study set up to begin working on his writing. My working space is incomplete, but I'm more picky. I'll wait for the new desk and writing space before hanging my wonderful collection of Andrew Tonn photography.

Tonight we'll walk down to Zips, one of my favorite resturants, where my friends have always gone to spend the last night before people in our group move away to other states and countries. For the first time, we'll go there to celebrate the moving to the neighborhood instead of moving away.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Thyroid Mis-placement


Here is what my thyroid looks like in a CT scan w/ contrast. (It is the round blob near the chin area. Please note the thyroid is NOT supposed to be located directly under the tongue. :) Soon enough it will be removed and I'll have to find a way to enjoy six paid weeks at home with those lovely kittens below and being allowed to eat all the ice cream I desire. Perhaps I can finish the novel I started while on my previous medical leave six months ago.

The Three Little Ninjas


















Monday, June 16, 2008


New additions to the Rose-Cahal family:


Buffy (gray fluffy and she definitely has the personality of a vampire slayer, yet she is quite prissy as well.)
Jackie O (black and white, formally known as Faith, but Matt has decided that he really doesn't want all of the kittens to be named for the Buffy characters, but she definitely matches Faith's personality and is the first to explore and always having fun.)
Leonitis (Leo) (formally known as Riley or Spike - they looked too similar to tell the difference, but I'm going with Spike given how him and Buffy have already developed a love-hate relationship, fighting to the death one minute and cuddling up to each other the next.)


Friday, June 13, 2008

The old apartment is nearly packed and the new progressing towards unpacked. I decided to take the day off of work and get the final touches done. I can't wait until tomorrow night when we'll be sleeping at the new place. Matt's more excited than he previously thought. Both of us moved around quite a bit when we were children, so we have the process of moving down to a science practically. In less than a week we've managed to move and work still.

And then the kittens arrive on Sunday!!! Pictures of them to come soon. :)

Monday, June 9, 2008

A very important chapter of my life is coming to a close. If not for my parents, there is nothing left in Wooster for me.

In September of 2002, I moved to Wooster, Ohio, having absolutely no idea what to expect of this small town. I knew no one other than my family, or so I thought. During a short visit back to Cincinnati one weekend, I learned that my friend Andy from college was living in Lodi, a nearby town and working at a local coffee house, called Seattle's. I couldn't believe there was this hip little coffee house in Wooster. How could I have missed it!! I immediately drove around and found the place upon my return home. When I walked in, there was Andy working behind the bar with Melissa. It was one of the most happy moments of my life to that point, I had missed him so much. But, not only was I reunited with a dear friend, I met a few more people that night that would end up being a close friend still today. At the bar, with a Guiness in hand, was this brooding man writing in a journal with a camera around his neck. We connected instantly. And then the Wilsons and their children, two more Andy/Andrew's to the mix. It took an entire hour to meet someone NOT named Andrew. That next person was Scott. And then Lexi. And then I got a job at Seattle's. Scott, Andrew T. and I were the morning shift, 5:30 Scott, and Andrew and I alternated the 7:30 and 8:30 a.m. shifts. Those were some awesome times. All three of us were practically insominacs those days, so it's a good thing we all worked around coffee and took great care to entertain one another. [And then... well, let's just leave the rest out of this blog for now.]

Lexi went off and married and had a baby girl.
Scott finished college, is teaching Spanish and has settled down with Angie.
Andy is... god if I know. Hopefully working in a museum by now.
Andrew is living with his lovely Lena in Sweden and continues to explore the world.
And I've ended up back where everything really started. In more ways than I ever knew or can explain at this moment.

And most sadly, now Seattle's is closing.

The place where this part of my life started, is now closing.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Well, finally my computer has been fixed. After accidently clicking on some random comment on Andrew's blog, I became virus-infected in all sorts of ways. I'm great with computers, but not good enough for that trojan.

Moving in less than a month to a wonderful new apartment in Hyde Park. Yummy. For those of you not familiar with the Cincinnati area, take my word, it's a very lovely part of town. And I'll be able to have pets, so perhaps, finally, life will be somewhat... "normal"?... again.

I'm exhausted after running this evening, so I think I'm going to crash with "Diary of a Madman" in hand (Gogal). What better way to fall asleep than Russian literature.... :) No, actually I love Russian literature, so long as I have a full pot of coffee nearby. I've lost my second copy of Heart of Darkness now, the 2nd time by accident, so perhaps some God above is trying to tell me something.

Another good book to come out recently in hardback is "Unaccustomed Earth" by Jhumpa Lahiri. It's actually a collection of eight long stories, "long short stories"..., in which she is a genius at writing. Her first collection of short stories, one of my favorite books ever, won the Pulizer Prize back in 2001, I think (Wikipedia Lena?) and she was in her early 30s at that time. Very talented young lady. Her first novel, "The Namesake" was made into a movie, which was decent, though nowhere near the strength of the novel. Anyway, point being, read her!

Wednesday, April 9, 2008


Began working with one of my favorite models on some portrait work. It's been great fun thus far. The summer semester at the Art Academy will be starting soon and I'm adding some painting classes to the mix. It's been quite a while since I've done any considerable amount of painting, so I'm very much looking forward to returning to this medium. Plus, I'll finally be working on other subjects besides the human figure. Perhaps some pretty vases.




Eva and Francine the Ferret.










Bailey and I were attempting to play toe war.

Monday, April 7, 2008

What a beautiful day it is! 75 degrees and breezy. The sun is shinning and the birds are chirping. What more can I say?

Tuesday, April 1, 2008


Tonight, the luxury of having a professional male model.
After a very long, exhausting day at work, it was quite nice to have a very wonderful session of drawing. I did not want it to stop.
And even better, Spring is really here.

Monday, March 31, 2008

In Loving Memory of Julie West.

Ten years ago today, my best friend from high school was killed by a driver, six times the legal limit drunk, in Clearwater, Florida.

She would have been an amazing woman today.

Saturday, March 29, 2008

Today was definitely an OCD day. After four separate trips to the store, and the purchase (FINALLY) of a new vacuum cleaner, at least half of my place is clean.

The clothing issue... overwhelms my bed. I truly didn't realize how much clothing I possess until today. And honestly, how did I accumulate so much clothing? Five years ago, I got rid of 99% of my possessions and moved abroad with a suitcase and duffel bag. That was ALL I owned. I know I didn't acquire much while living in Wooster because, well, there just is NOT a decent clothing store (other than the thrift store) within a 20 mile radius of Wooster. The first year after moving back to Cincinnati I was dirt poor, so it didn't happen then. So, in conclusion, this must have started when I began working at my current job, which is located only 1 mile away from the world's greatest thrift store to which I have ever been. And I've been to a LOT of thrift stores.

Now, I must go through it all and figure out what I will keep; because unless I somehow decide to purchase the fancy closet organizing thing I just saw at Ikea, there's no chance in hell I'm going to fit everything in my dresser and closet.

The shoes, on the other hand... will NOT go. No matter what my therapist says about my "impulsive" behavior, the shoe shopping will be the one thing I hold on to in my process of deconstructing and then reconstructing myself.

The love of shoes will survive.

Friday, March 28, 2008

Perhaps it has always been noticable to other people, especially given how often I mention the weather on this blog, but my self-realization this week has led to (at least) one solid conclusion: I am rather seriously affected by the weather. In fact, this week, I have noticed that my mood changes exactly when the weather changes, and in a very similar manner (aka, bright and sunny, great mood, bleak and overcast, "sad" or "down" mood).

Unfortunately, most of the week has been bleak and overcast.

And very little writing has been done.

Though, a lot of drawing. Which has led to the overall feeling of being content.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Very enjoyable evening in the art studio. Even had time to do some portrait work.

The weather is attempting to get better. Not quite as warm as the weather man predicts, but that's typical. (Wish I could have a job where I'm paid hundreds of thousands of dollars to be inaccurate most of the time.)

Still don't think it's fair that Sweden has warmer winters than southern Ohio.

Monday, March 24, 2008

Easter Sunday






Sister Stephanie




Step-mom Chris and newphew Taylor








Nephew Peyton












Jon and Marlene








And can't forget the puppy, Sammy, and cat, Buddy.

Friday, March 21, 2008

An American treat tonight. Pizza and the Wizard of Oz.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

The long interruption from writing this novel has ceased!

I received some inspiration from a dear friend far, far away, on Tuesday.

"Just fucking write the damn book," he says to me.

(These words have been our form of motivating each other for many years. We try to avoid the bullshit. What else is there to say, other than lots of gooey crap, right?)

So, it was raining that afternoon and thus the long commute home is much longer, as the Cincinnati area has some of the WORST drivers I have ever seen in this country and when any form of inclement weather arrives, it is a complete nightmare to drive the highways. Needless to say, I had plenty of time to think. I think about the conversation my friend and I had just a few hours previous and all the thoughts that naturally come as a result. I think about Wooster and the bizarre way in which I arrived in that small Northeastern Ohio town that I had only been in twice prior to my arrival, even though my father lived there for years. I think about how I kinda feel like running away to some small island in the south of somewhere, but then remember how running away to another country was how I ended up in Wooster in the first place. (I did run away to Germany, not the best idea I realize in hindsight. Had I gone to the Greek isles, you would probably not be reading this blog. I would have met some beautiful dark Greek man and sat on a beach all day... damn it...)

Anyway, I'm thinking all of these things and I still have not made it to the bridge yet. Which means I still had a good 30-40 minutes more before I reach home.

Well, somehow I start feeling "poetic" which only comes about three times a year, and luckily I manage to write enough poetry during those times to last a year's worth of editing. And in my thoughts of this poem, BAM!, I suddenly realize how I really want this book to proceed. I can pretty much scrap everything that has been written up to this point and start all over.

And thus, the writing has begun again. Though I will have to pause briefly for tonight's episode of Lost...

(Thank you Andrew!)

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Make that 37 hours.

Starting to wonder if I should be building an arc...
Going on 32 straight hours of rain...

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Swedish Candy Madness

So I've learned today at Swedes get their "high" off of sweets and candy. If you think I'm a sugar-fiend, you should hear about their markets that have near 200 (this number could be slightly exaggerated, but you get the point) bins, lining the isle, filled with the strangest candies.


Like green gummy witches fingers. When wouldn't that be enticing?
The downpour of rain that started at 5 am this morning has yet to cease, making our first warm day of Spring pretty much unenjoyable.


This is where I would rather be... and someday soon hopefully.


For now, I will just have to settle with looking at the print hanging on the wall.

Monday, March 17, 2008

IKEA Madness

How INSANE is this: For two days prior to the first IKEA store opening in the Cincinnati area, people literally slept outside the store waiting for the grand opening. For TWO DAYS.

IKEA's cool and all, don't get me wrong, but I would be interested to find out what the Swedes think of this...

(hint to Andrew and Lena for responses)



Happy St. Patrick's Day!


Sunday, March 16, 2008

The brackets have been decided and now the true March Madness begins! Whoo-hoo!

I know... I'm a nerd for college sports. Football and basketball. I think the last time my Miami University made it to the Sweet Sixteen was my sophmore year and they played UK, which broke my heart because I have a love of UK basketball. I was wearing a UK tanktop under my Miami tee-shirt and when UK won that game, I felt the need to take the tee shirt off. Though, it was bitterly cold outside, so that didn't last very long. Not to mention, I was getting some rather nasty glances from other people at the bar.

Friday, March 14, 2008

I do have a fondness of formal poetry, especially when so well done.

As printed in the January 2008 edition of "Poetry":

Nocturnal
by Stephen Edgar

It's midnight now and sounds like midnight then,
The words like distant starts that fainly grace
The all-pervading dark of space,
But not meant for the world of men.
It's not what we forget
But what was never known we most regret
Discovery of. Checking one last cassette
Among my old unlabelled discards, few
Of which reward the playing, I find you.

Some years after her death, but years ago,
Hearing Gwen's voice recite "Suburban Sonnet,"
At first we could not focus on it,
So jolted that the radio
Should casually exhume
From our shared memory the woman whom
We knew and make her present in the room,
As though in flesh, surprised to find that she
Had earned this further immortality.

Who ever thought they would not hear the dead?
Who ever thought that they could quarantine
Those who are not, who once had been?
At that old station on North Head
Inmates still tread the boards,
Or something does; equipment there records
The voices in the dormitories and wards,
Although it's years abandoned. Undeleted,
What happened is embedded and repeated,

Or so they say. And that would not faze you
Who always claimed events could not escape
Their scenes, recorded as on tape
In matter and played back anew
To anyone attuned
To that stored energy, that psychic wound.
You said you heard the presence which oppugned
Your trespass on its lasting sole occasion
In your lost house. I scarely need persuasion,

So simple is this case. Here in the dark
I listen, tensing in distress, to each
Uncertain fragment of your speech,
Each desolate, half-drunk remark
You uttered unaware
That this cassette was running and would share
Far in the useless future your despair
With one who can do nothing but avow
You spoke from midnight, and it's midnight now.
Yesterday was 70, warm and breezy, sunny all day.

Today, rainy and grey ALL day. Only now is the sunny starting to shine. Right before it sets.

Wednesday, March 12, 2008










Baily, one of my favorite puppies in the world (though he's not really a puppy anymore).

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

The temperatures have risen and nearly all of the 18-20 inches of snow have melted. Which means I can wear sandles again, and that makes everything all better.

No offense to the men of the world, but drawing the male figure is just simply not as enjoyable as drawing the female, for obvious reasons. So, while I enjoyed being in the open studio, I don't have nearly as much to show for it this evening.

Sunday, March 9, 2008

And now a lot of the snow has melted thanks to the temperture rising. Spring is now in the near horizon, temperatures in the 50s this week.

So, the weekend was mainly spent in doors, due to the fact that I didn't feel much like digging my car out of the parking lot, nor did the driveway actually get plowed until this morning. So I made yummy food and drank some wine and finished reading some books, worked on my stationary business, which should be launching within the next month. I was definitely able to keep myself busy. It will be a busy week, but I am committed to writing at least a page or two on the novel. A much warmer weekend ahead, I will head up to Wooster again since I didn't go this weekend (I hear they got even more snow than we did down in Cinci). The weekend up in Wooster will absolutely be dedicated to writing, assuming no major family issues arise (which is actually a difficult assumption to make these days, but still...).

With the warmer weather ahead, I do anticipate better days and better moods. And perhaps some poetry as well. Now if only football was played year round...

Saturday, March 8, 2008

A mild winter storm turned into a blizzard and dumped a total of 18 inches of snow, much higher in some areas thanks to the drift. It's nice to see the many families and children in my back yard sledding down the large hill that leads into the forest-area behind me. The nice part of snow and winter.

Friday, March 7, 2008

In like a lion, out like a lamb.

A lovely snow storm hits the midwest indeed. One last punch before Spring arrives.

Just so you know, my blog is feeling a bit lonely. No one ever leaves me any comments. Please, feel free to do so. The comments aspect is there for a reason. ;)

Thursday, March 6, 2008

Over the last month or so, this blog has become far less and less about writing my novel. Of course, it is quite difficult to discuss the writing of a novel when you're not actually working on writing the novel.

I share with you that life has been a bit of a black hole over the last month or so, for many reasons. Mostly due to love and family affairs. First love, and just as I was starting to move forward with my life, the family issues arose, which were more painful than the loss of one love and the non-existance of another combined. To the dismay of many, I have basically refused to speak of any of these "things," and I will continue to hold that ground for a while longer. Or until I have figured out where to go from here. Needless to say, it's been a very trying time. But I have the love of many friends and thanks to many of them, both near and very far away, I'm starting to regain some perspective on life again. I think so, anyway.

So, while writing has been difficult for me as of late, drawing has not. The feeling of peace that I have felt during my drawing sessions has been awesome. My mind is so completely clear, nothing and no one could possible creep into my mind. This has been major therapry for me. But I have began to journal again and often and perhaps someday very soon I'll open up the hardback notebook that contains already so many pages of a story that must be told, in what ever version I decide at that moment, I will pick up my pen and begin again.

Many thanks to Andrew, Eva, Allison, and Matt for picking me up when it's been so difficult to find my own feet.
In case it's never been said, a new Gucci purse can brighten up any sad day.

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Yesterday's weather was soooooo beautiful, warm and 65. And then today, BLEAK, DRAP, BLAH, and raining all day long. And back to cold. Snow tonight. :(

But, it was a wonderful night in the studio. Four new drawings completed. NOTHING better than a whole evening doing the art which I love. New work in the art studio.

http://michellerose-art.blogspot.com/

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Please check out Andrew's slide show "The Children of the Mangroves." Absolutely beautiful. This is some of the best photography I've seen from Andrew. I'm so fortunate to have two of the prints from this particular trip to Central America hanging on my wall.

http://andrewtonn.blogspot.com/
It was a lovely weekend in Wooster, though much colder than Cincinnati. I awoke this morning to 20 degrees and the wind raging and arrived home to 65 degrees, breezy and blissful. For the first time in a long time, I was glad to be back in Cincinnati.

Another wonderful person in Wooster is moving far away. :( Chris is off to New Mexico in a few weeks.








Yes, by this point I may have had one drink too many...

Oh, and finally got around to putting a few new pieces in the art studio. I need to finish up a couple others, some final revisions, which I hope to accomplish this week.